I did not say anything about male or female sex drives, other than suggesting that once a month indicates a low sex drive. What I said was that women (like WTF) can easily sacrifice sex (with their partner) in exchange for something, while most men would never even consider doing so. As for my friend, he is somewhat of an anomaly here. We live in the east coast version of San, and he is looking for a monogamous relationship. That's a feminine POV if I ever saw one.